Does Stress Cause Pain?

Could it be that stress causes pain?

Yes it does. Here is how it works. We each have a central nervous system (CNS.) Our CNS governs everything in our body.

Think of it this way: Your nervous system is a highway. The impulses, or messages, that travel on your CNS are the cars.

Everything is going fine, your cars are all travelling smoothly along the highway.

Ow! Banged my big toe into the table leg. That's okay, all the cars are still moving right along.

Dang! Another notice from the bill collector! All the cars are still moving right along.

What do you mean, you want a divorce?

I have such a cold! Cars are still moving pretty good.

Fender-bender. That's going to cost me plenty. Traffic is getting heavy.

What a headache! Uh-oh. One of the cars just slid into the median.

The dog died. A bunch of other cars are slamming on their brakes to try to avoid a pile up.

Just slammed my hand in the door. I think I broke my finger. Big pile up on your highway. Cars are screeching to a halt, some are smashing into others. Traffic is stopped.

The highway is overloaded, and nothing is moving smoothly now.

We function great when we have no problems. We do pretty well when we have only a few problems. But when a lot of things are going wrong and we feel stressed...

Our CNS - our nervous system highway - begins to show symptoms of overload. We begin to have pain.

If we cannot relieve a lot of the stress, it is possible for our pain to become chronic - we have it all the time.

However, if we can remove any of the stressors in our lives, our pain can diminish and become less. Each stress that we get rid of will lower our pain level.

The more stresses we can get rid of, the more smoothly the cars on our CNS highway will start to travel again.

So, the car gets fixed, we get a new dog, our cold goes away, our toe heals. Our stress level goes down.

To help our CNS highway work better we do some things to straighten out the cars and get them all moving again.

We get a nice massage, take a soak in the tub, get lost in our favorite music to relax by, talk to our favorite friend, sniff some lavender oil or a relaxing blend of aromatherapy oil.

We do some stretching or deep breathing while relaxing. We take a walk. Hum or sing or read or laugh. Watch a kid or a puppy or a cat. Garden or dance.

Anything we can do to eliminate or negate any stresses we have will help us to feel better.

The less stress we have, the less pain.

And, there are basically two types of stress.

1. The jet fighter pilot. You have stress but it is good stress. You are in control.

2. The prisoner of war who has no control.

Good stress can feel energizing and powerful.

Repeat after me: I am the jet fighter pilot!

Yes, you are.

Choices, Headaches and Vintage People

Choices, choices, choices.

All of our lives we make choices. More than we would like to make. So many!

Some of our choices have been excellent, and some, well...maybe not so good. But we keep on going.

Jerry L. Old MD is a geriatric physician. I figure, with a name like that, how could he be anything else? But, he didn't intend to be a doctor with an elderly patient practice. It just worked out that way.

I loved reading his really cool book called Vintage People. Vintage People are elderly people who have aged well. Dr. Old calls them vintage because they are like fine wine. They are people who have become better over time.

Do they have aches and pains? Lots of them do. It's kind of hard to get older without something twinging somewhere at least occasionally.

Have they made choices? You bet. Were they all good choices? Not necessarily, but they kept on going, correcting the course as they went.

Dr. Old interviewed his vintage patients. Every one of them responded! In many areas, there was no common agreement. For instance, eating habits. They were all over the place! Some people ate very healthy, some not, some ate a very specific diet. But, they had all made choices and they all had opinions about why their eating habits were the best for them.

I found that I kept smiling as I read. Dr. Old told lots of interesting stories, good stories. He shared his own opinions and sometimes tells a joke on himself, too. His chapters cover such things as attitude, humor, religion, marriage. Often these are the words of his wise, vintage patients. You can imagine them talking directly to you.

Choosing to read a good book like this, or any good book that engages your mind, and that makes you smile or laugh is good medicine!

Laughing is like having a massage from the inside out. It creates feel-good hormones. It boosts our immune system!

Compare that to watching the evening news. Do you suppose that boosts your immune system? Did you realize that you can choose to watch the evening news...or not? Even when I had a television, I did not watch the news. I read the Sunday paper selectively, starting with the funnies. I prefer the local newspaper to the big city paper because the local news has good news, not just argumentive, depressing stuff.

Back to the Vintage People. Vintage people are active, as much as they are able. They are young for their age. They have friends of all ages, and even regard acquaintances as friends. They enjoy little pleasures, like the sunset or a flower brushed with dew, sparkling like diamonds. They find ways to help themselves feel better.

When we become absorbed with something beautiful or interesting, we forget about the aches and pain. Sometimes we forget about a great deal of pain. And, often, when we forget to focus on pain, it actually goes away.

My father lived in Missouri. We hadn't seen him in a few years. So, when we were traveling through Missouri, we decided to surprise him. His wife knew we were coming, but he had a migraine. When we walked in the door, my dad was laying in a recliner with a cold cloth over his eyes.

He was so surprised and pleased that we were there, that in about ten minutes he realized that his migraine headache was gone! We altered his vascular system.

Will your migraine or pain go complete away if you have a pleasant surprise? Maybe, or maybe not. But, when we focus on something other than the pain, often the pain does lessen or go completely away.

And sometimes pain goes away when we focus on it. Does that seem to be a contradiction?

Let's use head pain as an example. Sometimes it feels as if our whole head hurts. It's killing us. Where is the pain? Everywhere! It hurts all over.

But what if we pay attention to the pain? What if we direct all of our attention to the pain? Is it here? There? Where is it, really? You may even find that there are very specific areas where it hurts the most. When you pay attention to them, you may even find that the specific areas move. They are not constant. There is some ebb and flow. The most painful area changes location.

So, it's not your whole head, after all.

What if you breath into the pain? Does that change anything? What if you tilt your chin up, or down? What if you take deep breaths, moving your whole chest?

Paying attention is a choice. Breathing into the pain is a choice. Changing position to see if that helps is another choice. Focusing on something other than our pain is also a choice.

In my mind, there is nothing like a migraine headache. Not only does it hurt really bad, it reduces your ability to think. It reduces your ability to interact with others. It can strip away days of your life.

If migraines or bad headaches are a problem for you, there are choices you can make. No one but you can help you. Try the little suggestions above.

Pay attention to your posture. Not only does poor posture cause head pain, it causes us to be old before our time and to look old.

Watch your diet. Do certain foods cause your head to hurt? Do you still eat them? Why?

The more you understand about why you hurt, the more choices you can make to feel better.

We can choose to be Vintage People. Active, happy, healthy.

We can choose well.

Can Your Back Heal Its' Pain?

We have really, really strong backs. Really, we do!

But, sometimes when something happens, like a spasm or a "catch", we start to think that our back is frail, or fragile. We think we have to "baby" our back.

When we start to baby our back, or move tentatively, we are setting ourselves up for injury. We start to move stiffly, instead of smoothly. We are more likely to get hurt when we move stiffly instead of gracefully.

The bones of the spine are called vertebrae. They are built in a way that allows them to bend, twist and move in a variety of ways. The vertebrae in the neck and upper part of the back are smaller, but the lower back bones are larger and sturdier.

Pads of tough tissue, called disks, cushion the bones and separate them from each other. The disks give us more ability to move.

Long, strong muscles run the length of our spines. They secure each bone to the rest of the spine bones so that the spine acts as one long unit. Muscles allow us to move. Muscles move bones.

Sometimes we panic when our back hurts. Sometimes we become afraid it will always hurt. We may make an appointment with a doctor or surgeon, hoping they will "fix" our back.

Now, I will admit, occasionally someone does have a back problem which requires surgery. For instance, a chip may have broken off a bone, maybe through an accident. If the bone chip presses on a nerve, it may require surgery to remove it from the nerve. That should correct the pain.

And, thank goodness that doctors and surgeons are available for the times when we truly need them.

But, can your back pain heal naturally? You bet!

Think about it. If you cut your finger, does it heal by itself? If you scrape your knee, does it heal? If you break a bone, will it heal? (If it's a bad break, it will require repair, but the bone will heal, with or without repair. The repair will help the bone heal in the correct position.)

Our skin heals itself. Our bones heal themselves. We get germs, and get sick, and we get better again.

So, please don't panic.

Ice helps muscle spasms. The rule of thumb is ice for the first 48 hours, and then you can switch to heat, or alternate heat with ice. Ice for 20 minutes on and 20 minutes off. Do this several times in rotation.

Take an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofen. If there is inflammation, or swelling, in the muscles, an anti-inflammatory is supposed to help reduce the swelling. Reducing the swelling may take pressure off a nerve, if you are having nervy pain.

Keep gentle movement going. Move with as much fluidity as you can. Try to be graceful, not lurching. Gentle movement keeps the muscles warm and keep fluids moving through our tissues.

If you have extreme pain, or lose control of your bowels or bladder, see your doctor immediately.

But, even with extreme pain, if you are patient, your body can usually heal by itself.

I had a client who had such pain that he could only kneel on the floor with his upper body supported on the bed for two days! He crawled to the bathroom and crawled back to his bed. Kneeling helped him feel a little better because with his belly supported on the bed, it took some pressure off whatever nerve was getting aggravated.

It took several weeks for him to feel well again, but it did happen. He resumed walking, but it was from picnic table to picnic table at the park. Eventually, he could walk normally again.

Lots of manual muscle therapy, or therapeutic massage, helped his tight muscles relax and took pressure off his nerve.

When he was first injured, his doctor said, well, you could have surgery, if you'd like.

The problem is, sometimes surgery helps and sometimes it doesn't. Back surgeries are done less now than they used to be, because often they didn't help.

Often muscles are the cause of our pain. Really often.

And muscles are really good at going into spasm, but they are not so good at releasing their spasm. If we keep moving gently, use ice and an anti-inflammatory on a consistent basis, and get manual muscle therapy if possible, our backs can get better.

Posture plays a big part in back injuries. If you suspect that your back is not as strong as it should be, that would be a good thing for you to work on.

For more about getting a healthy back, visit me at www.SimpleBackPainRelief.com

Pain-free backs rule!

Are You Sitting Down? What Hurts?

I wonder if you are sitting down while you are reading this?

I'd pretty much bet you are. And, I'll bet there is a good chance that something is hurting you while you are reading this.

How about trying something different?

Stand up to read. While you're at it, reach up to the sky with both arms. Big stretch, that's good.

You know how a cat or dog stretches their back legs when they wake up? One leg at a time goes into a backward stretch, away from their body. While you are standing, stretch your right leg out, behind you. Ahhh, that's nice. Now stretch your left leg (while you are standing on the right leg, of course.)

Reading while you are seated is not bad. It is fine, as long as...

1. You are using your strong posture muscles to be upright.
2. You aren't collapsing forward.
3. Nothing hurts.

Otherwise, try a different position to read. You could kneel, or stand, or sit on a big, round ball which will cause you to balance and use your muscles.

Or, start a program which will delevop your strong back muscles so they can hold you up while you read.

Oh! By the way, I am so excited! I recently taped a video just for that purpose - to help you get strong and powerful and pain-free, just like you used to be, when you used all of your muscles. As soon as it is ready, I will let you know.

My goal is for you to be pain free!

What Creates Pain?

Did you ever think that there may be a simple, logical reason for most of our pain? I'm going to share a secret with you. This is not something most doctors learned in school. That is why they cannot share it with you. The most common reason for pain is, are you ready, muscle imbalance.

Let's say that I sit for eight hours a day at a desk. Maybe I walk around for ten minutes during the whole day. My muscles get used to being in that seated position. Some muscles are shortened in that position. Some muscles are being unused, so they shut off.

Or maybe I drive around all day in my pickup. I like to stick my left elbow out the window and keep my right hand down low, on the gear shift. Of course, I have my right foot on the accelerator. By and by, when I get out of my truck, those muscles will stay where they have become used to being. My muscles now think that this new position is comfortable. Now when I sit on the couch, I assume the same posture, because now it is "comfortable."

We are always most comfortable in our disfunction. Whatever we get used to is what feels comfortable to us. Is it best for us? Will it help us grow older strong and straight? The answers are no.

What muscle imbalance does do is cause us pain. Sometimes current pain, always future pain. When we lose that nice balance we used to have, when we were toddlers, we are setting ourselves up for future pain and dysfunction.

Headaches, migraines, neck and shoulder pain are all caused by muscles complaining. Upper and lower back pain, carpal tunnel pain, almost any pain you experience is caused by muscles. When muscles are unhappy, they complain. When muscles complain, you experience pain.

It is never too late to get back into balance, and start getting out of pain. It takes some work and dedication, but is well worth the payoff: Having straight posture with a strong back will take us into old age in a healthy, happy body.

If you are already doing an exercise program of some sort, be sure to incorporate exercises to strengthen the backside of your body from neck to knees. Squeeze your shoulder blades toward your spine. Do exercises to strengthen your shin muscles.

Be strong and be happy.